how does /ad/ feel about changing jobs?

i've worked the same job for the past 5 years, and recently applied and got called back for a similar position at another company. If i hate my current job so much, why the fuck do i feel like now, given the opportunity, i would rather stay than leave? what would /ad/ do?

Love of my life being stolen from me by my best friend. I've only known her a few months but am absolutely crazy about her. Hundredfold better than any girl I've ever been with, perfect for me in every way.
Friend has only known her two weeks, and has used nothing but cheesy rehearsed lines and smooth talk to make her swoon. She's quickly losing sight of all the reasons she was into me to begin with.
We were never "official," but my dickhead friend had to decide to be a shitty person and try and take her for himself. He's just a desperate lonely heart who's trying for any girl who will give him attention, but soon he will grow bored of her.

Things have been awkward lately since the "triangle" unfolded. She's been less interested in talking to me, less happy. She's only happy when she's talking to him. I need to refresh her memory, I need to remind her why she likes/liked me. I can't lose her to him, but I've already lost him to her.

In his words, I'm just a speedbump on the way to her. Essentially, he's abandoning our friendship entirely for a girl who he barely even knows, and who he knows I was trying so hard for.

What the fuck do I do?

Ps. Sorry if this is incoherent, I'm just really distressed and hurting.

MIMI

Okay, aside from joking, I have a very serious problem.

Since I got on /b/ (whatever the *chan may be), my mind thinks that ENGLISH=TROLLING LANGUAGE. English is not my native language, so I often don't get the social implications of saying "I wanna rape a faggot and feed him my dog's balls" and all. Luckily, I don't think I'll have to speak English any sooner or move abroad, but MY WHOLE INTERNET LIFE IS BEING RUINED.
I already succeeded at stop trolling IRL in the way I do it OTI, but how do I seperate my *chan-life from my rest internet?

So, It's my 21st birthday party on Saturday and I'm trying to make it as good as possible. Have a gazebo in the back garden, 300 bottles of beer, 10 litres of spirits and 50 guests. BBQ and finger food provided. Plugging a laptop up to some speakers outside and putting on grooveshark so people can pick their own music. Any suggestions? Going to have a ton of drinking games too.

Suggestions on how to turn it into the best party possible?

In before "invite me".

Hello, /adv/; I've a little skincare problem for you.

For years now, I've suffered from seborrhoeic dermatitis on the face (not as raw-looking as the pictured case, but more widespread), but only recently has it been diagnosed. This being the case, I was given a strong steroid cream to use intermittently to reduce the redness, since there's no real flaking or breaking of the skin - simply inflammation. However, I have now ran out of this cream, and know that it's risky to pursue the longterm use of a steroid cream, so this brings me to my question. Are there are any remedies I can use on my face to reduce the redness brought about by my dermatitis without resorting to steroids? In addition, one of the creams I was prescribed was Canesten HC - would normal Canesten cream help to solve the underlying issue, eventually reducing the effect of the disease? Thanks a lot for reading and answering.

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>>	Anonymous 10/05/05(Wed)14:51 No. 196 Thanks again; I'm following the goat's milk idea and am cutting down on general junk food so far, and it's definitely clearing up my complexion in general.

>>	desertfox!Rommel 10/05/05(Wed)14:55 No. 197 File 127309653094.png - (310.49KB , 1364x751 , 1261428037409.png )

>>	Soaring!BpornyMj0o 10/06/01(Tue)16:15 No. 231 >>197 Never seen that before

/adv/, i cant talk,
when i hang out with people, i tend to say something wrong and pisses them off, or ended up making them hate me
and i only realize what ive said is wrong right after ive said it, and then i go facepalm

now, i dont have friends, and i dont want anymore people to hate me...
what do, /adv/?
life sucks without friends.

RRRRRRREJECTED from all professional schools, except one in North Carolina, which is a good school, but I got the impression that all anyone does there is watch college sports and fight the civil war. should i:

1. take a bunch of big shits and mail them to the schools that didn't take me, thereby possibly persuading them to change their minds

2. spend 6 fucking years as an undergrad, trying to improve my GPA and apply again in the next admissions cycle

3. go to north carolina and help fight the civil war

Had a bit of a shock yesterday, [b/.
I work with a young woman who, through the course of a few conversations, I've learned does crack. She's pretty attractive, and does not at all look like what you'd expect out of a crack head. (although she does have some tell-tell signs, if you know what to look for.)
Several weeks ago, she borrowed $40 from me, and I have yet to see any of this back. She hasn't even mentioned owing me money. So yesterday, she asked me to borrow $50. This sort of pissed me off, and I sarcastically quipped "Yeh, I'm gonna need a blowjob before I consider giving you a dime."

So an hour later, she come back to talk to me again, with a look of shame in her eyes. To my surprise, she tells me that a BJ for 50 dollars sounds ok to her, and that she really needs the money. Keep in mind I have NO delusions about where this money is going.

So later that night, after the shift is over, I'm sitting in my car getting a pretty fantastic blowjob. Towards the end, I happen to look down and there are tears running down her face. I pretty much instantly came right there, and honestly, it was the best orgasm I've ever experienced.

Now I don't consider myself a sadist or a misogynist. I've never once gotten joy, sexual or otherwise, from seeing women suffering. I've always been on the gentle side with girls I've dated. But I have to say, the feeling of power and control over this girl was exciting as fuck. And, If I'm willing to be honest with myself, it was the look of complete humiliation on her face that really sent me over the edge. So now I find myself a bit shaken with my own desires, and questioning some ideas I had about myself that had seemed pretty concrete just a few days ago.

Are we all just really fucked up sexually [b/ or is it just me?

i need some advise on how to drop out and bum around india for awile.