So, I have a predicament. I am thinking of asking a girl out from my course at university, however we will be living together with a third person next year. I'm worried about the possibility of either her rejecting me and then us having to live together and also the chance of us getting together then breaking up and still having to live together. Basically my question is should I ask her out or do the risks outweigh the positives? If I get enough legitimate advice I will act on it and get back to you with results.
if the girl is ok w/ having a friend after getting out with him its ok,and if you are good friend ask,the would be her and you be tence for a week or two,then passing over it
Don't hesitate, ask her out. There are no rewards without risks. When it comes to love an aversion to risk doesn't serve you. Ever. Living with the consequences of your actions is part of life and not something you should fear.
get her drunk. fuck her. see where that goes. ask her out?! watugay?
ask her out, if she says no tough shit D; idk
you: look i know we are going to be living together and all, and i really don't want to make things awkward between i value our friendship. But you are a great woman and well, i really do like you, i would really like to get to know you as a person. Or something along those lines is what i would do
Well the overwhelming consensus is 'yes'. I will ask her when she gets back into town and post results. If this fucks up let it be on your heads, if I get laid you are all instantly and permanently my favorite people ever.
if your going to be living together anyway, why not wait until after you have lived in close quarters for a while and see if you really like her? I mean seeing some one occasionally can make them seem great, but living with them, well, that will tell you what they are really like.
>>25 fuck that, that would just make it weird. Just man up and be like "hey, wanna get a drink sometime?"
Okay, OP here with an update. She's not coming back into town until friday now, so I gotta wait till then to act. However, during a chat with the other person that will be living with us next year they dropped a hint about as subtle as Hiroshima. Basically when I ask I'm almost guaranteed a yes unless I set her on fire and sacrifice her to Thor.
that would still be a yes, she would just regret that yes :D
>>36 well....its friday and....you didnt post yet.... we are waiting
>>60 Oh wow, I didn't realise the site was alive again. Anyway she said yes so thankyou everyone XD
>>63 yay inb4 an hero when she breaks up with you
>>64 hehe, I got my noose ready just in case
>>63 Victory for OP!
>>64 What if he breaks up when she an heros with him?
>>9 rape her